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Tuesday, December 21, 2010

A Little Ann Landers For The Day

As 2010 comes to a close we start to think about new year resolutions. My motto for 2010 was and will remain. "God is going to do exceedingly abundantly more than you could ever ask think imagine" Ephesians 3:20. He surprises me everyday with new joys.

Well on my way to work this morning I heard the guest host on the Bill Bennett show give these 10 commandments of How to get along with people. While I already try and do most, I will strive to add to the list all of them.

I have to add one more thing. A while back a boss of mine drilled into the sales people. "If your not early, your late". (military guy) While I strive to always be early, I will work harder on my punctuality. I guess it's one of those pet peeves for me. Years ago I knew a girl that was late for everything. Her attitude was "I'm worth waiting for" Hummphhh don't be like that, you might get left behind.

THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
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HOW TO GET ALONG WITH PEOPLE

  1. Keep skid chains on your tongue. Always say less than you think. Cultivate a low, persuasive voice. How you say it often counts more than what you say.

  2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully, no matter what the cost.

  3. Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it. If criticism is needed, offer it gently, never harshly.

  4. Be interested in others---their pursuits, their work, their homes and families. Make merry with those who rejoice, and weep with those who mourn. Let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him or her as a person of importance.

  5. Don’t burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your minor aches and pains and small disappointments. Remember, everyone is carrying some kind of burden, often heavier than your own.

  6. Keep an open mind. Discuss, but don’t argue. It is the mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.

  7. Let your virtues, if you have any, speak for themselves. Refuse to talk of other’s vices. Discourage gossip. It is a waste of valuable time, and can be extremely destructive.

  8. Be careful of another’s feelings. Wit and humor at another person’s expense may do more damage than you will ever know.

  9. Pay no attention to disparaging remarks. Remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world, and things become twisted in the retelling. Live so that nobody will believe them.

  10. Don’t be too eager to get the credit due you. Do your best, and be patient. Forget about yourself, and let others “remember”. Success is much sweeter that way.

(Credit Ann Landers)

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Do Your Hair a Favor


Every time Laura cuts my hair (about every 6 weeks) she would use Pureology shampoo and conditioner. Of course after you get your hair cut you leave the salon feeling like a hair model on a shoot.
I have used Biolage by Matrix for a few years, and it is a very good product.
But after running out of my humongous bottle I decided to invest in some Pureology. The salon was having a buy 1 get one 1/2 off. After one week I could see and feel a BIG difference in my hair. It is more manageable, holds the style better and is softer.
Here are some of the product highlights.

Pureology’s Exclusive Technology:

AntiFadeComplex®

Exclusive blend of potent antioxidants and full spectrum UVA/UVB sunscreens.

ZeroSulfate® Shampoo

Free of harsh colour-stripping sulfates and salts.

Advanced Volumizing Micro-Emulsion Technology

Penetrates the hair shaft to create volume from within without weighing hair down.


Natural Ingredients:

Multi-weight proteins of Soy, Oat, and Wheat
Strengthen and repair hair from within.

Organic Botanicals:

Lavender, Papaya, and Lemongrass
Deliver natural conditioning and provide soft, natural body.


It only takes a small dollop of shampoo to completely clean your hair and scalp. Or half of what other shampoos require.

You wear your hair everyday. Why not do something special for your self. Get your hair professionally cut every 6 - 9 weeks and use good quality products.


CHRISTMAS!!

I love this time of year and I refuse to let anyone steal my joy!! Just because they are bah humbugy!! Check out this video and remember "THE reason for the season". And to "Keep Christ in Christmas". Okay enough of the cliches. This will explain it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uS6Q4GCTsPw

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Today is the DAY!

It's finally here!! Election day! Yea finally the backbiting and misleading ads will be over. You know the ones that say "that" candidate wants you to pay 23% in taxes. Hello Democrat committee that is sponsoring this ad. Under you we pay way way more then that!!! (I guess I should say "Surprise surprise another misleading ad") I would love to only pay 23% tax. Imagine getting a pay check of the actual amount you earned. No taxes taken out. Check out the truth at www.fairtax.com. Everyone should pay their share!!!

How did I get off on that. The truth is after today no more ads!!! Yea, because tomorrow the TOY ads will begin. Bwaaahhhhaaa and you thought all the mind bending was over.

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Something to LOVE and Something to AVOID

Several months ago when I started my diet I learned about the Stevia plant and all it's natural goodness in making my tea sweet. Well, I was lead to the product called "Truvia". Love it, love it. You can now get it in a scoop-able container and not have to mess with the mess that all those little packets cause.





Well I thought if Stevia products are good then other brands should be good also. Not so!!! I bought this other brand at Walmart called "Skoopz". This I would recommened staying away from. A glass that would take 2 Truvia packets to make sweet, wasn't sweet enough with 6 of the Skoopz. When I opened a packet and tasted just the product it tasted like some manufactuing dust with a touch of sugar added in for good measure. Here is a picture so you can avoid it.




So from now on I will stick with straight Stevia (that I buy at Whole Foods) or Truvia.

Monday, September 27, 2010

You Get What You Pay For!


If it's one thing I have learned in my years the old saying "you get what you pay for" is so true. Especially when it comes to hair care! I've known for a long time to stay away from the cheaper shampoos and conditioners or the "grocery store" types. They contain waxy products that coat your hair and weight it down. I use Biologe products for shampoos.

But recently I came across a wonderful hairspray!! L'oreal Elnett in the gold can. I bought it at Target. Wow oh wow. I never knew a hairspray cold hold like this, without being a helmet head. It runs about $12 a can, but you know it will last for months. This holds everything in place. It also disappears with a brush stroke.

Friday, August 6, 2010

When God Sighed

I'm so glad I serve the God that groans with injustice. He feels my pain. This one word has to be up there with the words - BUT GOD....

When God Sighed
by Max Lucado

Two days ago I read a word in the Bible that has since taken up residence in my heart.

To be honest, I didn't quite know what to do with it. It's only one word, and not a very big one at that. When I ran across the word, (which, by the way, is exactly what happened; I was running through the passage and this word came out of nowhere and bounced me like a speed bump) I didn't know what to do with it. I didn't have any hook to hang it on or category to file it under.

It was an enigmatic word in an enigmatic passage. But now, forty-eight hours later, I have found a place for it, a place all its own. My, what a word it is. Don't read it unless you don't mind changing your mind, because this little word might move your spiritual furniture around a bit.

Look at the passage with me.

Then Jesus left the vicinity of Tyre and went through Sidon, down to the Sea of Galilee and into the region of the Decapolis. There some people brought a man to him who was deaf and could hardly talk, and they begged him to place his hand on the man.

After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the man's ears. Then he spit and touched the man's tongue. He looked up to heaven and with a deep sigh said to him,"Ephphatha!" (which means, "Be opened!"). At this, the man's ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly. (Mark 7:31-35)

Quite a passage, isn't it?

Jesus is presented with a man who is deaf and has a speech impediment. Perhaps he stammered. Maybe he spoke with a lisp. Perhaps, because of his deafness, he never learned to articulate words properly.

Jesus, refusing to exploit the situation, took the man aside. He looked him in the face. Knowing it would be useless to talk, he explained what he was about to do through gestures. He spat and touched the man's tongue, telling him that whatever restricted his speech was about to be removed. He touched his ears. They, for the first time, were about to hear.

But before the man said a word or heard a sound, Jesus did something I never would have anticipated.

He sighed.

I might have expected a clap or a song or a prayer. Even a "Hallelujah!" or a brief lesson might have been appropriate. But the Son of God did none of these. Instead, he paused, looked into heaven, and sighed. From the depths of his being came a rush of emotion that said more than words.

Sigh. The word seemed out of place.

I'd never thought of God as one who sighs. I'd thought of God as one who commands. I'd thought of God as one who weeps. I'd thought of God as one who called forth the dead with a command or created the universe with a word ... but a God who sighs?

Perhaps this phrase caught my eye because I do my share of sighing.

I sighed yesterday when I visited a lady whose invalid husband had deteriorated so much he didn't recognize me. He thought I was trying to sell him something.

I sighed when the dirty-faced, scantily dressed, six-year-old girl in the grocery store asked me for some change.

And I sighed today listening to a husband tell how his wife won't forgive him.

No doubt you've done your share of sighing.

If you have teenagers, you've probably sighed. If you've tried to resist temptation, you've probably sighed. If you've had your motives questioned or your best acts of love rejected, you have been forced to take a deep breath and let escape a painful sigh.

I realize there exists a sigh of relief, a sigh of expectancy, and even a sigh of joy. But that isn't the sigh described in Mark 7. The sigh described is a hybrid of frustration and sadness. It lies somewhere between a fit of anger and a burst of tears.

The apostle Paul spoke of this sighing. Twice he said that Christians will sigh as long as we are on earth and long for heaven. The creation sighs as if she were giving birth. Even the Spirit sighs as he interprets our prayers. (Romans 8:22-27)

All these sighs come from the same anxiety; a recognition of pain that was never intended, or of hope deferred.

Man was not created to be separated from his creator; hence he sighs, longing for home. The creation was never intended to be inhabited by evil; hence she sighs, yearning for the Garden. And conversations with God were never intended to depend on a translator; hence the Spirit groans on our behalf, looking to a day when humans will see God face to face.

And when Jesus looked into the eyes of Satan's victim, the only appropriate thing to do was sigh. "It was never intended to be this way," the sigh said. "Your ears weren't made to be deaf, your tongue wasn't made to stumble." The imbalance of it all caused the Master to languish.

So, I found a place for the word. You might think it strange, but I placed it beside the word comfort, for in an indirect way, God's pain is our comfort.

http://click1.salemradiomail.com/tvmvdjssbvtkvjgbkbhdpkpfmbkcchzbprcdgbbvhjhlv_ufpmqcf.htmlAnd in the agony of Jesus lies our hope. Had he not sighed, had he not felt the burden for what was not intended, we would be in a pitiful condition. Had he simply chalked it all up to the inevitable or washed his hands of the whole stinking mess, what hope would we have?

But he didn't. That holy sigh assures us that God still groans for his people. He groans for the day when all sighs will cease, when what was intended to be will be.